Confused about sex?

I feel uncomfortable talking about sex i m a big prude but I am really confused. I am really into being dominated sexually. I like being roughed up to a minor degree and I like feeling like I have no control. My partner really likes this too and thats great but sometimes if I m really not in the mood or really don... show more I feel uncomfortable talking about sex i m a big prude but I am really confused. I am really into being dominated sexually. I like being roughed up to a minor degree and I like feeling like I have no control.
My partner really likes this too and thats great but sometimes if I m really not in the mood or really don t want sex or anything sexual, my partner will try harder to make it happen. I feel i have been clear I am not fore-playing or whatever. I have made it clear i m not joking around. Yet he gets really upset or mad with me and keeps trying & makes it happen anyway. But he says I like it so he s done nothing wrong and part of kind of agrees I do like it so thats why I feel confused.

Sorry if this doesnt make sense
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