I can’t take my mother’s nagging anymore. I’m 35, what do I do?

I live on my own and only see her about once a month but I still can’t take it. Gets her social anxiety if she can’t be herself in public with me with her because I represent her in the eyes of others she feels. If I mess up it means that she messed up raising me is how she feel. This is why she went nuts on... show more I live on my own and only see her about once a month but I still can’t take it. Gets her social anxiety if she can’t be herself in public with me with her because I represent her in the eyes of others she feels. If I mess up it means that she messed up raising me is how she feel. This is why she went nuts on relatives who criticized me when I was a kid and she got them out of her life when they were perfectly good people.
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