My kid`z dad abandoned uz. too, zneakily ;( very very late in my pregnancy.
rather than dizcuzz a what waz/ iz major izzue (for him, though we carry the heavy can)..
People are antzy re mizunderztandingz. Duh x 100.
My zon very very kindly took time out & came with me for a biopzy and it waz a falze alarm at the hozpital.
Had he not been there, with me - the only perzon I can weep around - and enjoy laughing with .
I would have fainted. before the teztz .or I would DEFINITELY have ran off.
before we zaw the teztz or the Conzultant..
Az it waz, I wept , firzt zeeing the patientz having treatment,
then with zpeechlezz relief!
My zon had a good talk too on my behalf with the Conzultant. :)
My zon ztolidly (whom I told juzt the day prior to the biopzy) walked me through it,
Thank Heaven, after 5 monthz of my totally zecretly waiting for the biopzy.
Truzt your bezt zide, not your natural rezentment iz my take on your .Q