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Christians believe that 'hate' was only given to us to identify and defeat evil, (which operates behind the scenes), helping us remove surface hypocrisy from forms of 'love' which are not actual love and which do not come from GOD:
"Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is good." (Romans 12:9).
GOD provides us with a far superior 'version' of any form of love that has been twisted by evil into confusion, mayhem and damage. He also provides us with the 'way of escape,' (1 Corinthians 10:13), so we do not have to fulfill its inferior impulses or take it on as some kind of uniqueness-robbing 'demographically' assigned identity, which only makes us vulnerable to exploitation by government or criminals or both while leaving us ultimately unsatisfied by empty promises.
We have all been given unrepeatably unique individual divine callings by GOD, Who Alone knows exactly how to satisfy each of us completely with love, since He Is Love itself, (1 John 4:8,16). This is by design so that no human can truly help us 'find' ourselves without His help. Only a direct Personal relationship with our Creator can do this. He created every legitimate version of love, each of which reflects aspects of Himself for us to explore and know as we get to know Him over the course of all eternity.