How to be myself at school?

At home i feel like i am a really fun and energetic person and VERY outgoing. But at school i’ve mostly always been clammed up, shy, and kept to myself. Therefore i wasn’t popular at all. I had a decent amount of friends but it still felt like i wasn’t being myself. I always feel like i’m trying to be someone that... show more At home i feel like i am a really fun and energetic person and VERY outgoing. But at school i’ve mostly always been clammed up, shy, and kept to myself. Therefore i wasn’t popular at all. I had a decent amount of friends but it still felt like i wasn’t being myself. I always feel like i’m trying to be someone that will impress each person i’m talking to. This year is freshman year and my goal is to become more outgoing and not care what people think. Some days go well but others i overthink everything and begin letting all the bad thoughts in like “what if they think i’m weird?” “what if they think i’m ugly?” and etc. How to get over this?
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