Mom keeps tells me I need to break up with my bf?

So basically, my mom has always had a problem with me and anything that involves me. My last bf was an ***, treated me horribly and she never said anything. Her “motherly instinct” didn’t kick in then, but now all of the sudden when I find someone who treats me well and does what he can for me, sees marriage in our... show more So basically, my mom has always had a problem with me and anything that involves me. My last bf was an ***, treated me horribly and she never said anything. Her “motherly instinct” didn’t kick in then, but now all of the sudden when I find someone who treats me well and does what he can for me, sees marriage in our future and just overall wants the best for us and working hard to get that, she keeps saying “he’s not right for you” 😑 like what!? A man that wants to take care of me isn’t right for me? She keeps sayin it’s her “instinct” but I know for a fact it’s not that. I feel like she’s jealous that I have someone good and our dad treated her wrong and they’re divorced... been divorced and got married to the woman he cheated with. My mom has always treated me differently from my brothers and i feel like it’s because me and them have different dads and I was supposed to be an abortion (her words). My bf has never disrespected her me or anyone in our family. He’s trying his hardest to get us moved out, wanted multiple jobs (I’ll have one soon too) but nothing’s good enough for her when it comes to me. I’m tired of this, I love him, can’t wait to move out. So I guess I’m asking, should I listen to her about him? Should I do what I think is best for me? Do you think she’s just trying to control me and keep me here? Out of all her kids I’m the only one who has ever been made to do all the house work, cooking just everything and I feel like she just feels she’s loosing her maid.
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