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Anonymous asked in HealthMental Health · 4 months ago

Why can't I remember any of the abuse I have been through, but I still get mad because of it?

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  • 4 months ago
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    It is called "repressed memories"

    It is pretty serious if you are a woman:

    https://psycnet.apa.org/buy/1987-19495-001

    It is more severe and dangerous as a female. Though getting mad about them seems male (or troll). Your question was too vague to help though. I would speak with someone who understands memory repression and abuse, you know it is real.

    These came from a journal, I just copy and pasted them - (GOOGLE SCHOLAR):

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    • Care411
      Lv 6
      4 months agoReport

      Here is a basic article for the OP. M/F brains are neurobiologically/neurochemically different as is structure, blood flow&many other aspects. Abuse is different for women https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-boys-and-girls-brains-process-trauma-differently_n_582b3c90e4b02d21bbcabbbb

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  • M.P.
    Lv 5
    4 months ago

    You blocked it out in order to move on?

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  • Lili
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    Possibly your anger isn't about abuse. Discuss it with a therapist.

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