What type of disorder is it when someone forces you to do things and lacks empathy and takes your money for themself?

I dated this guy and I was sick and didn't want to go skiing. I didn't have a winter coat. He purchased a ski outfit for himself. The mental health workers said he has defendant personality order because you can see in the photos I didn't feel very good.
Update: They also said since he had a ski suit and I didn't I was abusive to him.
Update 2: I didn't have a winter coat either and told him I couldn't afford to take off work or buy a winter coat. So, they said I deserve to get raped by their friends.
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