Im going to be 30 in a month. I am a single male and working a job that doesn't pay much up to my standards. am I a loser?

I have low confidence. I wish I was 21 again.

I don't pursue women because I want to better myself in my job and career and be better with finances.

what should I do??
Update: the only positive thing I can say about myself is that I am on my own and I don't live with my mommy or daddy.

I am also very good at saving money and don't waste it on garbage

other than that, I feel like a loser.
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