Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Dining OutOther - Dining Out · 3 months ago

Is it rude when a friend or family member wants you to go to a restaurant you don't like going to with them?

There is a restaurant that my brother and his wife loves, the one time I went there I did not like it because the food was overpriced and the service was very slow (I've had an empty glass for like 15 minutes), I really don't want to go back to that restaurant because I don't like it when my glass is empty for a long time period.

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  • Robert
    Lv 6
    3 months ago
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    One bad visit could be an anomaly. Give it one more shot. If it still doesn't please you then on future visits you can inform your brother that, although he likes that place you don't. Tell him you'd like to try something different. But remember, if you dine out with them often you both should be free to pick restaurants sometimes, but you too must go back to the place they enjoy once in a while. Fair is fair.

  • 3 months ago

    No. Everyone in family equal. Why not treat them equal.

  • 3 months ago

    It's not rude - they like the restaurant, so like visiting it

    You didn't like it on the one occasion you went there

    If you don't want to return, tell them you'd prefer to try somewhere else; perhaps make a suggestion for alternatives.

  • 3 months ago

    Well, if they're paying, I can tolerate a lot.

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  • 3 months ago

    It’s fine you always have an option right

  • Bob
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    To me it's not rude of them to ask, and it's not rude of you to decline if you don't want to go.

  • 3 months ago

    Then don't go suggest another restaurant

  • 3 months ago

    No it's not rude, and it's also not rude to either decline of suggest an alternative restaurant

  • Erik
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    No, it's not rude for them to ask, and it's not rude for you to say no. People are too damn sensitive these days.

  • 3 months ago

    No, it's not rude of them to want to spend time with you.

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