Should I talk to her? Or just leave it be?

So my boyfriends cousin and I got into a big confrontation back in October/November 2018. It was so bad that we stopped talking and even almost got into a fight. We exchanged words..We were so close I would go over her house every weekend we did alot together. But lately I been wating to reach out to her but my... show more So my boyfriends cousin and I got into a big confrontation back in October/November 2018. It was so bad that we stopped talking and even almost got into a fight. We exchanged words..We were so close I would go over her house every weekend we did alot together. But lately I been wating to reach out to her but my family is telling me not to and my boyfriend tells me not to either that is my fault and I should not reach out. What should I do? I want to do lunch or something. But idk if it will ever be the same.
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