How to pretend to be straight for your immediate family? Or is that even healthy? What else can you do to keep them on your side?

I guess in this situation they kinda sorta know bout the gayness. But their knowledge isnt concrete and is blinded by their delusion about me. What to do? ie. smartest way to come out? or give it more time etc.?
Ways in which to maybe let them know but not be so brash or bold?
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