You have such a fear of rejection that your mind is made up before you even get to the party. You have your mind prepared that you will automatically be rejected by women, that even if they did the smallest thing your mind would blow it up into something more than it is. Your mind has a fear of rejection so you are going to the party defensive and prepared for battle, instead of going to the party with a positive attitude and prepared to have a good time, you are going prepared to be miserable. It is like you are transferring the negative things women have done to you in the past on people you haven't even met yet. You need to give yourself a break and go to the party with an open mind, a positive mind, and prepared to have a good time. If someone snubs you, shake it off and focus on positive things, so that you can be relaxed and others can approach you. It is easier to approach a positive person who is open to meeting new people that to approach someone who is defensive. Keep in mind that if someone rejects your opinion, it doesn’t mean they reject you. I don't like pineapple on pizza, I am not rejecting my sister, I am rejecting pineapple. They might not have the same beliefs as you on every subject, that doesn’t mean they reject you. Chin up, give yourself a break and don't take yourself so seriously. Go to the party and have a good time.
Joyce Meyer Power Thoughts