Babysitter question (3)?

Are these normal for a father to say to a 4 year old daughter? 1) Come upstairs and take a shower with me. (when he gets home from being out). 2) Come upstairs and take a nap with me so we can cuddle. (when he gets home from being out.) Also to kiss 4 year old daughter goodbye to go to go out and be touching her... show more Are these normal for a father to say to a 4 year old daughter?

1) Come upstairs and take a shower with me. (when he gets home from being out).

2) Come upstairs and take a nap with me so we can cuddle. (when he gets home from being out.)

Also to kiss 4 year old daughter goodbye to go to go out and be touching her butt the whole time. And then as she walks away,
to reach out and touch the butt again.

There is no mother. I am the babysitter and need help.
Update: I am 20 years old and started to babysit for them when I was 19.
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