Why do you think I was still rejected by guys when I was younger when I was beautiful and nice in my 20's?!?

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  • Nitro
    Lv 5
    11 months ago
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    People get rejected for all sorts of reasons. The important thing is to not take it personally.

    1) Sometimes we meet people at the wrong time. It's possible those guys you asked out were in a weird place - in a relationship, dating lots of people, or getting over previous relationships.

    2) Just because we perceive ourselves to be a good catch, it doesn't mean every person we like will agree.

    3) While it certainly helps to be beautiful and nice, that's not all guys are looking for in a partner. A guy needs to find a girl who he is compatible with. For instance, if he might want to find someone who shares very specific interests with him, someone whose values are similar, etc.

    4) Some guys prefer to do the chasing rather than be chased.

    • Suzy Suzy Sue
      Lv 6
      11 months agoReport

      Oh wow thanks! This was very helpful!

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  • 11 months ago

    You may have had a wall up that other people could sense, or it could have been your demeanor. It's hard to tell. Some people are not that inviting.

    You have to take an assessment of yourself. I can't do it for you

  • 11 months ago

    Because being beautiful and nice is only part of the equation. What else do you bring to the table?

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