is this normal?
i found a lot pictures of my boyfriend and his ex of two years on social media today. i cant help but think he still loves her. they've been broke up for over a year and he still has evidence of her everywhere. i cried for two hours seeing them so happy together. ive never felt love with another man besides him so i think thats why it affected me so much. Ladies is this okay??
- FoofaLv 73 months ago
Unless he's reposting this stuff chances are he's just forgotten it's there. I wouldn't read too much into if if you're just cyber stalking and finding old posts.
- PatriciaLv 73 months ago
Honestly, you cried for two hours? I don't see the point. We all have memories and pictures. Who cares? And he's a guy... why would he rifle through old pictures and delete them? He probably doesn't even think about those pictures anyway.
I had an ex boyfriend who has gobs of pictures on his computer of himself with his ex wife who he has a daughter with. He also has pics of an ex girlfriend. I only know this because he was showing me old pics on the computer. People are sometimes sentimental. We all have old memories. why erase memories? that's all it is.
I have great memories with exes. I don't erase their pics from my life, and i don't toss things they gave me. They are memories, and good ones.
but i'm not with my exes, i'm with my current boyfriend (who, by the way has memories too and collects gobs of porn). Oh well, his life, his choices. I make my own choices too... and his choices don't effect me and neither do his memories.
Respect other people's memories, and for god sake stop crying like you're 12
- Anonymous3 months ago
I'm guessing you would be happy if he deleted all those photos and only posted photos of the two of you. Correct?
Great. And when he meets his next gf he can delete all the photos of you and only post photos of him and his new honey.
I really have no clue what you're asking. There is evidence of his past relationship because it existed.
If you don't want all this history all over the internet for everyone to see forever, then I suggest you date someone who doesn't use social media.