I have a really big problem?

My two friends are starting to be in a relationship with each other. Here's the issue. My one friend is very weird when it comes to relationships. He has told her stuff that I think it wrong and strange. But she's into it. I think he's a bad influence on her, and they're both very young. What should I do?

6 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    11 months ago

    You're their friend not their parent. Sometimes you just have to let people make their own mistakes and find out the hard way to practice better judgment.

  • 12 months ago

    It's not your relationship, it's none of your business.

    What do you think you can do? You're not involved in any personal way. I don't care what your friend tells you about it. It's still between him and her. Not YOU

  • 12 months ago

    Real friends tell their friends what they need to hear in a kind way - even when their friend doesn't want to hear it.

    Here's some information for your friend that she may not want to hear:

    May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling people who are pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money).

    My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), break up with this guy in a kind way unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!

    PS The best way to get to know a strong man without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service or a school organization.

    Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
  • 12 months ago


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  • 12 months ago

    "I have a really big problem?"

    Yeah you do... you don't know HOW TO ask a question.

  • 12 months ago

    How old are they?

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