Which Martial Art is the right one for me?

About me: i am female, in my mid-twenties, not too sporty but with a bit of training I can get an okay stamina. Not very strong, tall and slim. About what i am kind of martial art i am looking for: -it should combine gaining strength aswell as "mindfulness" -rather defense than attack, rather hands than... show more About me: i am female, in my mid-twenties, not too sporty but with a bit of training I can get an okay stamina. Not very strong, tall and slim.
About what i am kind of martial art i am looking for:
-it should combine gaining strength aswell as "mindfulness"
-rather defense than attack, rather hands than feet, rather standing up than being on the ground.
-not too slow (like taichi) but not too agressive

Can anyone give me a suggestion? THX!!
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