Is my girlfriend using me sexually or is she just in love?

She has always been fond of me but sometimes I feel like she wants to have sex with me because she feels sad or lonely. In those times she cries and refuses to let me go shower afterwards and begs me to stay close to her. Sometimes she would cry on my chest and rub her face on it. She always wants to kiss me and we... show more She has always been fond of me but sometimes I feel like she wants to have sex with me because she feels sad or lonely. In those times she cries and refuses to let me go shower afterwards and begs me to stay close to her. Sometimes she would cry on my chest and rub her face on it. She always wants to kiss me and we do it about 3 times a week. For me it's a lot, for her I dont know, she was virgin before me but she often wants to do it, as if it was a way to feel happier and make up for her sadness. Any ideas why I feel used by her wanting me and kissing me all the time? Does she really want me or she uses me to cover her feelings?
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