Feel like I'm taking the wrong approach to her weight?

I don't like confrontation, I don't like bringing up things that I know are going to be difficult conversations. My girlfriend of 6 years has been putting on some serious weight, she's easily over 200 at this point. I say nothing. My mindset is, " her body, her choice". I just don't want... show more I don't like confrontation, I don't like bringing up things that I know are going to be difficult conversations. My girlfriend of 6 years has been putting on some serious weight, she's easily over 200 at this point. I say nothing. My mindset is, " her body, her choice". I just don't want to come across like I'm disparaging her, but I am worried because A) she's not really concerned B) Its causing problems for her.

I figure the lightest I can tread is, " I'm worried about you. Is there anything wrong? Do you want my help? I'd diet with you."

I don't want her issues to continue & wake up at some point 250+ pounds.

What should I do?
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