Was this rude or wrong?

My friend who is a guy, recently fell ill and lost a lot of weight. He was already quite slim, now he looks really thin and frail. I made a comment not thinking and said "you look so girlish with your new dainty figure". He hasn't talked to me since that day which was last week. It's just that... show more My friend who is a guy, recently fell ill and lost a lot of weight. He was already quite slim, now he looks really thin and frail. I made a comment not thinking and said "you look so girlish with your new dainty figure". He hasn't talked to me since that day which was last week. It's just that time looking at him, he did look like a girl. I now realize I shouldn't have said it. How do I apologize?
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