Why do people always say you shouldn't be so hard on yourself, but once you are confident in yourself, they say you're a narcissist?
But, if you are confident, or even just dont vocally self-deprecate, and keep your negative self talk to yourself, they call you a narcissist. Why? What exactly do people want? you cant win. and then, if you purposefully start telling yourself in your mind that you suck, to make sure you dont become a narc, you are considered weird.. what do i do??