Is Venus opposite or square Neptune usually a deal breaker?

I read about this aspect being unromantic or a theme of having a one sided attraction. I’ve only experienced the encounter twice. The first one is when my Venus opposite his Neptune, there were other synastry aspects in our charts that indicated strong physical attraction which I found hard to believe because I... show more I read about this aspect being unromantic or a theme of having a one sided attraction. I’ve only experienced the encounter twice. The first one is when my Venus opposite his Neptune, there were other synastry aspects in our charts that indicated strong physical attraction which I found hard to believe because I didn’t find him attractive at all but he did. The other guy was a similar situation where we had aspects indicating hot sexual attraction but again my Venus would square his Neptune and it was obvious he was into me and I was not. Is this usually the case? And is it Neptune who finds the Venus person attractive but the Venus person doesn’t?
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