Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 12 months ago

I want to have sex so bad, I want to die?

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It hurts so bad

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  • Anonymous
    12 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Most men want sex. Try to learn from women and have less interest in sex.

  • 12 months ago

    I feel you brother, we've all been there. Better take a trip to Amsterdam or your gonna explode! If you can't afford one, save up and you've got the internet to act as a pressure relief valve on that Yellowstone volcano till you have enough cash. After you finally sow those oats, you will be in a better position to meet a nice gal. In your present condition your too volatile !!

  • Betty
    Lv 7
    12 months ago

    Go visit a ***** house...............

  • 12 months ago

    Enjoy sex .You will never think of death.

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  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    12 months ago

    Do you have a question or are you just offering yourself?

  • Peep
    Lv 5
    12 months ago

    Actually take a girl out. Give her gifts. You shouldnt have the milk if you cant pay for the cow.

  • U r probably in poor shape. Females are a shallow lot.

  • 12 months ago

    Find a hobby or something. Give concentration on that, it will help you a lot.

  • Anonymous
    12 months ago

    I can totally relate to that. I have been there before. When I was in graduate school I went through a 2-3 year dry spell. No sex whatsoever. It ******* sucked. It is not natural for men to not have sex and for men sex is more like a need than a want. That said, a dry spell is serious business and my short term advice to you would be as follows:

    To break the dry spell consider the following:

    1) Consider taking meds for depression/anxiety. My 2-3 year old dry spell ended shortly after I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety and other psychological disorders. I was put on Prozac and Lorazepam and my social anxiety andover eagerness around women went away and I was able to bed some attractive women just because of my changed neurochemistry. You might want to also take a few drinks to loosen you up. Keep in mind if you have a substance abuse problem this medicinal approach might not be a good idea but it did get me out of a slump.

    2) If you have the financial means, consider becoming a "sugar daddy" whereby you give a girl an allowance in exchange for a dating-like relationship which usually involves sex. Most of the time this is technically not prostitution and you are not breaking the law . The other advise might be to go a jurisdiction where prostitution is in fact legal and partake. Just be sure to use protection. The disadvantage of these approaches is that they are costly and you might not have the means.But if you do, it will certainly bust your slump.

    3) If your problem is that you are just being too picky, loosen your standards and have sex with any woman, even if she is fat and unattractive. Again the idea is to break your slump.

    The above suggestions are just bandaids. Once you bust your slump you can focus on a long term self-improvement plan. But it is hard to think long term when you are thirsty in the desert. A long term self improvement plan would involve things like working out, improving social skills, increasing your confidence, becoming more financially secure, dressing better,and learning more about how to approach women. There are lots of books out there on dating, some better than others.

    Alot of guys think that their height or their ethnicity holds them back with women. This might be the case for your or it might not be. But if it is, just remember that the world is a huge place and there are 3.5 plus billion women out there and chances are you fill find a woman to have sex with you regardless of your height or ethnicity. You just need to be persistent.

  • 12 months ago

    I'm sure you're young so here's the deal:

    If you're a guy it will be over in five seconds, so i don't see what the big deal is. And if you're a female you're going to be sorely disappointed after those five seconds are over.

  • 12 months ago

    Me too. I can never get enough.

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