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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 10 months ago

what kind of negativity is this from a female friend?

So I HAD a female friend who asked me to build a website for her. I was visiting a city where I went to college to. So then after I got back to my city, I started to contact her again.

I asked her to send her content like the company background and some photos. Because she is a friend, I just asked her for about $150 for the cost (which she never paid me upfront). FYI, I charged at least $500 for a company website.

It took a month for her to send me the contents. And it was not the full complete pages. I had to add and rephrase many pages. So it was a painful wait for me for waiting for her.

But this is the worst part, when I was building her website for about a week after receiving the content from her. She said this "my customers are complaining about the website". Well I said to her, I'm still in the process of building the website and you (my friend) are also very slow in sending me the contents. In return, she backfired me as a lousy web designer. The next thing, I said, "well find another web designer then"..... And I stop contacting her again since then.

I have not received any money until now and I wasted a week for this website which was in the process of initial design.

What kind of bad attitude is this? Is she a moron?


PS: she the one who came to me for the help.... I did not offer my service.

Update 2:

I'm a male and she was a room mate of my male friend. She lived about 2 building away from my apt building during my college years and it was 5 years ago. Now I'm a full time web designer working for a computer hardware company.

3 Answers

  • 10 months ago

    did you have a contract? If so she's entitled to pay. And you can always use a collection service to retrieve the funds, but i don't know if you'll ever be paid regardless.

    I'd just cut my losses and move on. And i would also ask for a 50% NON-REFUNDABLE deposit on all future website building jobs. And i wouldn't start the work until i received the deposit.

    I have a small business and i expect a person who pays by check to add a $25 check cashing fee. Why? Because it's a hassle to take checks.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    10 months ago

    That's just a disorganized person trying to get something of value for little of their own effort and the gender of this person is irrelevant. This question is in the wrong category because blaggers like this come in all forms.

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  • Donald
    Lv 5
    10 months ago

    You owe her nothing... You are a business person and should be compensated for you time. You were foolish to do any work for her without compensation in the first place. Just let it go and if she requests more help, up your price to $1000 and make sure the check clears before doing anything else.

    Next time you do business get a contract first and you will eliminate some of those potential problems.

    Best wishes

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