How do I know if I'm about to have my first period?

I'm 14 and I haven't started yet, so I've had many false alarms thinking every bad stomachache is a cramp. I spotted maybe around a month ago (I think at least), are there any other ways than this stomachache and the spotting that might give me a clue to if I'm just constipated or starting my cycle?
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