How am I supposed to talk to girls?

I’m a 21 year old guy. I just can’t get talking to girls right. If I tell her I think she’s cute and ask her on a date, I will scare the girl and she will think I’m “creepy”. If I try to be friends first (which I prefer, would rather build genuine connection first) then I get the “ur just a friend” or “I like you... show more I’m a 21 year old guy. I just can’t get talking to girls right. If I tell her I think she’s cute and ask her on a date, I will scare the girl and she will think I’m “creepy”. If I try to be friends first (which I prefer, would rather build genuine connection first) then I get the “ur just a friend” or “I like you like a brother”. So which is it? It’s no wonder our country is bringing in al these immigrants. There wouldn’t be a population if we just had Americans. Everything is either too “creepy” or too “friendly”. Like a “puppy dog”.
20 answers 20