can i ask my coworker if he's openly gay?
he gives off a gay vibe
- SkyLv 710 months agoFavorite Answer
Just make conversation and ask things like if he's dating anyone. If he's open to answering he will, and his answer may allude to what his orientation is. If he's too vague about it or doesn't answer, don't press the issue.
- ElizabethLv 710 months ago
Sure. If he is not, you risk a bloody nose or a black eye. But go for it.
- RobinLv 710 months ago
if he is openly gay then you wouldnt need to ask
- nineteenthlyLv 710 months ago
Dunno, do you fancy him?
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- TjLv 710 months ago
No, you may not ask a co worker if he is gay. Why does it matter to you? want to date him?
- Common SenseLv 710 months ago
Umm, if he's "openly gay", then you would know about it.
Do not ask people about their personal sexual preferences because that is just flat out rude.
- LarsEighnerLv 710 months ago
Personal questions are inappropriate in the workplace and can get you in a lot of trouble with human resources. I cannot picture a situation in which there would be a work-related reason you would need to know this information. If he were "openly gay," you would know this already.
- 10 months ago
It generally depends on what kind of relationship is there between you two and how you present the question.
simple put: if it is not perceived as some slight than it should not be a problem.
- .Lv 710 months ago
Yes, it you're at Coney Island or any American Embassy.
- Anonymous10 months ago
Yes, then kiss his penis.