Being a virgin is not embarrassing. Being sexually active is also not embarrassing. Its a big world and everyone is different. Personally, I liked that my husbands number of sexual partners was low. I am also glad that mine is on the low spectrum. When YOU meet the one, maybe you will be glad you waited and didn’t waste your time on people who only wanted you for your body. Sure its fun, but its not meaningful and usually not worth it either.
What’s more concerning is your so called “friends.” Having sex is not “cool,” as your friends seem to think. You and your friends want different things, its as simple as that. They should respect you and definitely not make you feel that it’s embarrassing. Whether a guy admits it or not, most guys that want to settle down prefer their wife to not have hooked up with everyone in town. But again, everyone is different. You will find the person right for you in time.
I was single through most of college and met my now husband about a year after graduating. I was born in the U.S. My mom is from Peru and my dad is from Quebec, Canada. My husband is from Azerbaijan (Yes that is a country). He is from the small city of Sheki. To make a long story short, I found someone, but he was from the other side of the world. I grew up Christian, and he Muslim. Point is, you will meet someone when you least expect it. And it can be as bizarre as my story. Peruvian-Azerbaijanish babies? What is that?
That’s how random and crazy life can be.
Your time will come. Maybe tomorrow, maybe in 10 years, it will come. Just always follow your heart and screw what other people think.