"Lower the bar."
LMFAO. Is that a joke? Are you actually kidding? Hm. Have you ever heard of the term "mom bod"? No. You haven't. Women, that actually HOLD children in their wombs, never seem to have a valid excuse to be fat.
But of course, dads, who aren't pregnant, can't easily resort to their "dad bod" when criticized for being a fat ***, so don't complain about "lowering the bar" when the bar is being made equal.