My ex husband was diagnosed with the same ASPD. Lucky you he told you that, you must be special, his trophy woman. My ex husband didn’t tell me what his personality type was, our son told me after he found out from his uncle before he passed away. He’s a good father, cold hearted with our boys sometimes and horrible horrible husband. He’d lock me in rooms as punishment or to scare me, he’s purposely destroyed my car so I couldn’t leave, all kinds of things to hurt me create fear in me everything.