biology, n womens species are like peacocks,,dogs,some are born chihuahas,some are pitbulls,most are medium size, even tempered,some girls are drawn to megatestosterone in biological drive to select strong dna towards species preservation, barflys who dig tattooed love boys,,,they tend to burn out early, use your chops,,brain,speech with a spiel to lay on some Q8y at a sportsbar 11 am on a sunny saturday.
you have a regular paycheck? that matters,as a potential species provider,,no paycheck? you aint no huntin & gatherer for the ladys' nest
if no paycheck,get e gig
eat healthy,fish w vitamin D,,get sunlight,attend to hygiene,keep the place clean,,get a pair of rollerblades,find a boardwalk where you can scout the territory