How to be happy when all my decisions are made to appease people who just want to control me?

Where I live, what jobs I take, where I went to university, was all because my family was so nasty to me if I didn’t do what they wanted. They’d say I’d make them homeless if I didn’t do what they want, and when I asked how the two are connected they’d just start screaming about how terrible I am. I hate existing... show more Where I live, what jobs I take, where I went to university, was all because my family was so nasty to me if I didn’t do what they wanted. They’d say I’d make them homeless if I didn’t do what they want, and when I asked how the two are connected they’d just start screaming about how terrible I am. I hate existing so much. I feel like my family is mentally unwell
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