Are guys being paranoid jealous and controlling or girls just trying to cover their a$$?

In my last relationship my GF was talking to an "old friend" on FB and going out more than usual. I called her out on it and she accused me of being paranoid jealous and trying to control her. Obviously she was cheating. If you ask most wemon about similar situations those are their go to accusations.... show more In my last relationship my GF was talking to an "old friend" on FB and going out more than usual. I called her out on it and she accused me of being paranoid jealous and trying to control her. Obviously she was cheating.
If you ask most wemon about similar situations those are their go to accusations. I'm just wondering if any wemon actually believe that or is it all about CYA
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