You think being right supersedes getting along. It's that thinking of yours that gets you "dragged into them." Once you stop thinking that way, once you realize that your need to be right doesn't actually supersede your need to get along, not actually, you will begin to stop getting "dragged into them," a problem of your own making. It takes strength to say to yourself, "This isn't worth fighting about." In fact, it generally takes more strength of character than arguing. Develop that strength. Develop that mindset. It's okay that what you think disagrees with what others think, and it's not your job to fix them or try to adjust their thinking.