You should resist having your kid see a shrink. Once he does, they'll give him some fake label that'll expose him to bigotry, which leads to harassment. I was falsely labeled as "retarded" when I was 5, without any chromosomal test to back it up. As a result, I was bullied throughout my school years. BTW, my IQ is 134, my vocabulary was at a 12th grade level in Jr. High, and I'm self-taught in how to do some basic reading in Japanese.