It's sad that your role model and (probably) teachers are having such a negative influence in your life.
You shouldn't be thinking that "all men are dogs", because it's not the truth at all.
The vast majority of men do not rape, kidnap, murder, etc.
Men and some women, whom we hear about in the news, are the ones committing heinous crimes. Somehow this has come to mean that all males do this - which would therefore have to include you.
Yet you don't do these things, so doesn't this indicate to you that many other men would be decent, considerate and kind too?
Men and women, as a broad generalisation, are certainly different in how they respond to circumstances or stimuli, but that doesn't necessarily make all men dogs just because your mom says so.
Please don't let your bigoted feminist mother influence you so negatively.
I'm sorry to say, but she is a toxic influence in your life :(