Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 months ago

Why do men only want to "pump and dump" me? I feel so used.?

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  • zipper
    Lv 6
    4 months ago

    You made the bad choice of who you have a relation with, look at your self, may be your to free with your self!

  • Pope
    Lv 6
    4 months ago

    Most men are insecure and have low-self esteem. A lot of women don't give it up too easily because insecure men are liable to cheat and lie to raise their childish ****-count. And I think some men "pump and dump" because ultimately they just want to have casual sex but they know, if they told you that, they wouldn't get it.

    I agree with some of the other people. Watch our actions not our words. If you want a relationship, you should both invest in each other a bit.

  • Jack
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    Relationships should be based upon mutual goals, values and priorities. Do you truly share goals, values and priorities with these men? That's what I thought. Feelings come and go. Facts, choices and consequences remain long after your feelings or looks have changed. Choose wisely. You have to live with the consequences.

    Try choosing men who share your goals, values and priorities. You shop for cars at a car lot. You advertise apples when selling apples. What/where are you "shopping" for men? You get drunks at a bar. You get another type of man at a church pick-nick. What are you advertising/selling? They'll "buy" what you are selling. Be careful. Bait and switch doesn't work. Be honest and respectful. Act like a dog...be treated like a dog. Be careful how you choose to act. Honest and respectful ring a bell? Act like all you care about is sex? See what happens? Waiting for sex really does have value. Finally, consider the company you keep. He who lies down with dogs will arise with fleas. Choices really do have consequences. Choose wisely.

  • 4 months ago

    I will assume you are not trolling but I never do attack people over potentially doing something wrong. Providing you are a nice woman please find a real relationship.

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  • 4 months ago

    Hello. Sounds like you are lonely and they take advantage of you. You haven't found the right person for you yet. Maybe you need a nice guy like me?

  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Then don’t get involved with men. Stay with your own sex. Like men are doing who are going MGTOW.

  • 4 months ago

    Well, don't give it up so easily.

    The same ol' 'Girl, you're the one for me' line has to have gotten predictable by now.

  • 4 months ago

    Because you’re stupid and you let the bad boys do that to you

  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Youre too easy.. Feminism has set you up for failure. Try the old fashioned way, keep your panties on if you want a ring.

  • 4 months ago

    Cuz you let them. Bye.

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