Why are coworkers so nosy?
I applied for an internal job at the company, my friend suggested I applied in her department. I was talking to my friend saying that I have an interview and I saw a coworker who was sitting across her was ears dropping.
As I was leaving the office, literally the whole department knew I had an interview and they were like “When do you find if you got the job or not,” I don’t even know these coworkers by the way and I asked “how did you guys know” and they were like we are nosy. What the hell is wrong with these people? The position is not even open until after 3 weeks, I didn’t want everyone knowing the fact that I am leaving my position. I told them tomorrow I have an interview, how do I get these people from department who I don’t even know to stop asking me questions. I wish everybody was like me and don't give a zero interest on whose moving where and which position, I really don't care about what they do and I don't even know them.
What do I tell these people?
- Tommy G.Lv 46 months agoFavorite Answer
Why are they so nosy? They just happen to be satisfied about knowing if they were.
Tell them that it would be proper to go about their own business. Some things are personal and it should be considered right to tell them it's none of their concern but make the request sound professional.
- EdnaLv 76 months ago
They weren't "ears dropping" ..they were "eves-dropping"
- CatherineLv 66 months ago
Ears dropping. That's what exactly?
- ElaineLv 76 months ago
You brought this on yourself. Perhaps you mentioned the topic to your friend within earshot of co-workers because you wanted them to know. Maybe you wanted to feel important.
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- bluebellbkkLv 76 months ago
You allowed this to happen. That was silly.
But you don't have to answer questions just because people want to ask them. If someone asks about any of this, just smile vaguely and say 'Oh, nothing's settled' and get on with your work.
PS The expression is not 'ears dropping'. It is nothing to do with ears. The phrase is 'eaves-dropping'.
- paulLv 76 months ago
a very old troll repost
- LiliLv 76 months ago
"Eavesdropping" is the word.
And if you don't want people listening in on conversations about work-related issues, don't discuss them within earshot of anyone else, for God's sake.
You have only yourself to blame for all of this. YOU were indiscreet; YOU discussed this with your friend where others could hear. That was a very stupid thing to do, and you now really don't have a right to complain.
I think you're just a troll.
- Anonymous6 months ago
Cause they’re bored