thegoodman. I can't believe you actually said that. Mom might have left over that issue, and by law, Dad is allowed visitation rights. Hopefully she has the $$$ to take him to court over this. Don't blame Mom. She isn't with him anymore, nor does she smoke, and it is obvious that she is concerned, whereas, Dad isn't. In this day and age, for Dad to play stupid...ummm..And...it is not against the law to smoke, so CPS is out of line. Tell me, did you feed your kids soda or fried foods? That kills too. Causes diabetes, and heart attacks. And no, my kids rarely had sodas or fried food, and had lots of fruits and veggies.