My boyfriend has severe anger issues, what needs to be done?

He shouts during arguments, his face turns visibly red. If he has a bad day at work, he goes to the backyard to his junk collection of vehicles and begins vandalizing them with a baseball bat until he feels calm. He will even spend so much time fixing them back up just to damage them all over again. His frustration... show more He shouts during arguments, his face turns visibly red. If he has a bad day at work, he goes to the backyard to his junk collection of vehicles and begins vandalizing them with a baseball bat until he feels calm. He will even spend so much time fixing them back up just to damage them all over again. His frustration levels has increased and he finds himself hitting walls, damaging his fists.

The doctor said if he didn't find an outlet for his frustration, that he was very prone to having a heart attack as soon as he hits 35 years old.
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