which one of these is more intimate and would you let just a friend do any of these below ?
These would be done by someone who isn't a professional and is just a colleague
Shoulder massage with clothes on
Back massage with clothes on for 40 minutes
Sitting on your lap
Also, would you do any of these to someone if they were just your friend ? Or would you have to have sexual attraction in order to do any of these ?
- Anonymous5 months ago
I will not be touched by strangers. I don't like being touched my friends.
I would do none of these with anyone but a partner.
- CarolineLv 75 months ago
I'd only let my husband do any of the above and I would hope vice versa. Certainly I have no interest or intention in giving a co-worker anything but a work project.
- KazLv 65 months ago
If you're sitting on someones lap - it's very personal, and invites intimacy. After that, a foot massage is more intimate than the other choices. I would think nothing of massaging someones shoulder if they were in pain - but colleague suggests co-worker - I wouldn't be massaging someone at work - and certainly not for 40 minutes.
- i + iLv 75 months ago
Any of the listed is "intimate" in the sense
that there is prolonged physical contact and
meant to give pleasure... which also implies
that sexual (sensual) attraction is germane
to the situation.