Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 months ago

which one of these is more intimate and would you let just a friend do any of these below ?

These would be done by someone who isn't a professional and is just a colleague

Shoulder massage with clothes on

Back massage with clothes on for 40 minutes

Foot massage

Sitting on your lap

Also, would you do any of these to someone if they were just your friend ? Or would you have to have sexual attraction in order to do any of these ?

4 Answers

  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    I will not be touched by strangers. I don't like being touched my friends.

    I would do none of these with anyone but a partner.

  • 5 months ago

    I'd only let my husband do any of the above and I would hope vice versa. Certainly I have no interest or intention in giving a co-worker anything but a work project.

  • Kaz
    Lv 6
    5 months ago

    If you're sitting on someones lap - it's very personal, and invites intimacy. After that, a foot massage is more intimate than the other choices. I would think nothing of massaging someones shoulder if they were in pain - but colleague suggests co-worker - I wouldn't be massaging someone at work - and certainly not for 40 minutes.

  • i + i
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Any of the listed is "intimate" in the sense

    that there is prolonged physical contact and

    meant to give pleasure... which also implies

    that sexual (sensual) attraction is germane

    to the situation.

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