Body builders use Steroids. This causes ROID Rage.
Didn't you ever watch Jersey Shore, when RON would blow the eff up on Sami and smash all her stuff, and then a day later, calm down and say "sorry" and buy her flowers, and then do it again a week later?
Anyone calling you any of those names, you need to kick to the curb RIGHT NOW, and never look back.
This is abuse.............plain and simple. END IT, and get away from this maniac.