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Anonymous asked in Entertainment & MusicPolls & Surveys · 6 months ago

True or False: Very few are lucky enough to be with their first love forever?

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  • Janet
    Lv 7
    6 months ago
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    True.

    But it is not necessarily "lucky".

    Out of ALL marriages:

    - 50% end in divorce

    - 12.5% last but are miserable

    - 25% last, but the emotion has died out and they just exist together

    - 12.5% last, and after 15-20 years they become soothing nurturing relationships.

    And it has nothing to do with whether or not the successful marriages were first loves. It is emotional maturity, not love, that makes a marriage succeed. And most "first loves" happen when we are too young TO make it work.

    In fact, experts say that until we have lived on our own, entirely self-supporting, for at least 5 years, we are not likely to be able to make marriage work. So unless your first love started between age 23 and 27 ... it's not likely to last.

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  • Ben
    Lv 6
    6 months ago

    True in several cases.

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  • nancy
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    I think it's true that very few stay with their first love forever, but I'm not so sure about the luck part. First loves are usually about romantic and sexual obsession and not much else. While they're wonderful while they last, they rarely have the qualities that are needed in a long term relationship. Someone who ends up being with their first love forever probably isn't very happy.

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  • 6 months ago

    It's better to be the last love. Married to the same guy for almost 43.....now that's lucky.

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  • keerok
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    True.

    Count me in.

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  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    I wouldn't know. No personal experience to either yay or nay it

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  • 6 months ago

    But you cant know how they really are or will you even consider yourself lucky being with your first love

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  • 6 months ago

    well im with my first guy..been married for ever...… but its true many think grass is greener over the fence and never try when problems arise

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  • 6 months ago

    Very true...........

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  • Anonymous
    6 months ago

    True. Some people never grow

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