Why do I have so much hate?

Every time my father comes around I have to stay away before he asks for money or asks for me to buy his home. Also, my cousin he is desperate for a girlfriend and when me and my 10 year old girlfriend come around he snaps his fingers at us so we can give him attention. All this causes me to hate them? Is this... show more Every time my father comes around I have to stay away before he asks for money or asks for me to buy his home. Also, my cousin he is desperate for a girlfriend and when me and my 10 year old girlfriend come around he snaps his fingers at us so we can give him attention. All this causes me to hate them? Is this normal? How would you feel?
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