I wouldn't go, I don't need to see their disgusting faces whether the staff or the students. I've had school bullies long time ago and we don't even live in the same country anymore. I don't think I'll see them again. It just means nothing to me but I do miss some of my old classmates. Again, they don't live in the same country anymore as well. They all moved around just as I did.
Although, I still do not need to see the faces of obnoxious and annoying people. Why would I waste my time in getting dressed and having to go just to see their faces?
I will not do all those things for people because they do NOT deserve that, trust me. All the strange things they've done is just obnoxious.
I rather get dressed for someone I adore, respect and love than for people who do NOT deserve that and haven't seen for long time.
I would just go about life and school is so years ago that its nothing. People move on doing whatever.
The girl that was mean to you, what you know about her should suffice you. Because, look at her situation. She can't go about her life anymore the way she probably used to because of that baby and stuck at home with her family. She probably was fooling around when she was younger or trying to make a relationship work that probably didn't work out and turned out to be this way.
If she was really smart, she'd probably make better choices for herself and a better life maybe. Because I don't think the choice she made is a smart one at all.
Just be thankful, go about living life and work on your life. It doesn't really matter to anyone as to what you are doing in life, its not their business except your family and your friends if you care to share with them.
Its your life, not theirs. I think school reunions are just stupid. Most people like going just to brag about what they're doing in life or their wealth and whom is their spouse is all they care about. Showing off.
I think showing off is just boring and immature or for self-centered people and trying to make other people feel bad about their own lives or whatnot.