I'm an adult but I'm still forced to talk to my estranged family who hates me?
I don't want to see my family anymore. They hate me, bully me, and abuse me. I'm an adult but I still have to see them from time to time. I hate it. I dread it. I can't get a job right now or move out. Every time they see me they bully me. I can't deal with it anymore. They're just crazy. There's no way I can avoid them. I'm considering taking my life so I won't have to deal with this anymore.
- FoofaLv 76 months ago
Sounds like contact with these people is what you're paying in rent to live there. Look, statements like "I can't get a job right now or move out" don't engender much sympathy. Either you're a minor child or you've got some extenuating circumstances like a disability, work visa problems or the like. But until you explain WHY you can't move out no one's going to be able to give you any reasonable advice on this.
- PearlLv 76 months ago
i would just rnove out, you can always go stay in a shelter and they'll help you out
- historyLv 76 months ago
I didn't talk to my family from 17 (when I left) until I was 29 and I decided I missed them. I don't "get" how you are "forced" to talk to family.
My family treated me far differently when I started knocking on their doors again. Twelve years made a huge change in me, in them, and in any sort of pretension regarding "place" or authority or power.
- choko_canyonLv 76 months ago
Sounds really difficult, but I've read your post twice and still don't see a question in it anywhere. Do you HAVE a question, or are you just venting?