You might think that you are friends, but in reality, you are not friends. Learn to live and act in reality. It doesn't matter if someone initiated a friendship or if the friendship was good before, because we are supposed to make decisions and act based on the reality of the PRESENT moment. And presently, he isn't acting like a friend or like someone who is interested in a friendship with you - so this information is what you should use. You cannot continue to do things based on what the situation was in the past or based on what you wish was the reality. This will only cause you disillusionment, betrayal, and undue pain - and you have no one to blame but yourself. Always make your decisions based on what is happening NOW, regardless of what happened in the past or how good a person was to you in the past. Because things change and people change, and you have to also adjust accordingly. If you don't, you will suffer. In fact, the moment you begin to suffer in a relationship, it is a sign that things have changed but you have failed to realize this and act accordingly. So, let your so-called friend go and find yourself new friends who will respond to your kind gestures and plan fun things that involve you. Trust me, there are lots of people out there who would think that you're the best friend to have in a group because you know how to initiate things and make them happen. You have a great talent for friendship, so don't waste it on the wrong people.