Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 5 months ago

when a woman describes herself as "average looking" in her dating profile, is that code for "FAT?"?

Update:

i don't mind a women with an average looking face as long as she keeps a healthy weight.

Update 2:

@good: every woman i see at walmarts is not physically appealing.

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  • patty
    Lv 5
    5 months ago

    in regard to dating sites men are scared they will get a fat girl and women think they might be meeting a serial killer.

  • 5 months ago

    She be respected for her truthfulness.

  • Zirp
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Probably not. I think it just means she isn't complimented about her looks all the time.

    Some datingsites specialise in certain types. Some even use photos

  • Dick
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Sure seems like it! Educated means they can read comic book captions without moving their lips. In good shape usually means they only have to stop and rest once, between the parking lot and the store. Financially secure, is when they pass probation at WalMart .

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  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    Dittos to "Good": or go to the beach, mall or supermarket and pick an "average" woman.

    Run for the hills !!!!!!!!

  • Elana
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Maybe.

    Or maybe it's her way of culling all those guys who are simply hunting on the basis of looks.

    Or she is the ugliest of absolutely spectacularly beautiful sisters.

    Unfortunately, given the venue, all you know is that it is what she WANTS you to think. It may be true, it may be true in her mind or ... it may simply not be true.

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Most sites also have a place to identity your build as well so look there. Euphemisms like "curvy", "thicc", "busty" and "hourglass" are your tip off. Plenty of average build women might assess their facial features alone as being "average".

    • Dick
      Lv 7
      5 months agoReport

      Dear Foofa; In three years, I only met ONE lady that was truthful about her appearance, on THREE dating sites. Few even used their own photos!!!!!

  • 5 months ago

    I'd be very careful with this one.

  • Good
    Lv 6
    5 months ago

    Go to Walmart. Walk around. Look only at the women

    who are not physically appealing. That is what she is

    talking about.

    .

  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    Lol no I would think it’s code for a real stunner but playing it down

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