I would say you're well intentioned, but to answer your question, no this is not fair. In fact, you shouldn't even be dating someone like this, because it gives her something to focus on besides the serious and maybe life threatening problems she has.
You didn't give her age, which would have been really helpful. But the one obvious thing is she needs a full, inpatient physical and mental evaluation. Also, where is she getting antidepressants. If some idiot shrink is giving them to her (but missing some other very obvious problems) tell him what's going on and demand that he take steps to get her admitted.
Don't play head games and hope you can fix this. She is seriously ill.
· 4 weeks ago